ON DAY OF TIKA MUDDA----PEHLE MUDDA HOTA HAI .ON THIS DAY DAUGHTERS;SISTERS AND DAUGHTER IN LAWS GO TO THE BRIDES PLACE.
THINGS REQUIRED:JEWELLERY;CLOTHES;GODH;MONEY;AARTA KI THALI;FOUR TO FIVE LADDOOS IN A SILVER BOWL;GARLAND;PAAN;WARPHER KA LIFAFA;RED AND
GREEN BANGLES;ROLI;MEHENDI KI DABI;CLOTHES FOR THE BRIDES SISTERS
AND BROTHERS;MUH MITHA KARNE KE LIYE MITHAI.
LADKI KE GHAR JAKAR NANAD AUR BHABHI CHOKI PAR AAMNE SAMNE BAITH JATE HAIN.NANAD BHABHI KO TIKA LAGATI HAIN;SAREE UDHATI HAIN GEHNA PAHENATI HAIN, MALA PEHENATI HAIN AUR PHIR MUH MITHA KARKE PAN KHILATI HAIN.
ISKE BAAD GODH BHAR KAR VARPHER KARTE HAIN.PHIR NANAD AARTA KARTI
HAIN AUR PHIR BAHU GHAR KE SAB ELDERS KE FEET CHOOKAR PRANAM KARTI
HAIN.
BRIDES SIDE:LADKI WALE KACHOLE MEIN CHANDI KE SIKKE PAR MOLI LAPPET
KAR AUR MONEY DALTE HAIN.LADKE WALON KI BEHAN BETIYON KO HAATH KA SAMAN DETE HAIN.PHIR KHANA PINA HOTA HAIN.
TIKA:MUDHE KE BAAD TIKA HOTA HAIN AT SOME PLACES TIKA PEHLE HOTA HAIN
AUR MUDA BAAD MAIN.ELDERS OF BOTH THE SIDES AUR SAGE SAMBANDHI STAGE
PAR BAITH JATE HAIN.PANDITJI GETS THE GANESH PUJA DONE FROM THE BRIDE
GROOM.THEN THE GIRLS GRANDFATHER/FATHER DO GROOMS TILAK,MAKE HIM WEAR A GARLAND,MUH MEETHA KARATE HAIN,PAAN KHILATE HAIN AND GIVE HIM MONEY ,NAARIYAL AND SAMAAN (CHAIN,WATCH ETC) DETE HAIN.AFTER THAT VAAR PHER KARTE HAIN.PHIR MILNI HO JAATI HAI-APNE YAHAAN 3 MAIN MILNI HOTI HAI(DADAJI,BHAATI AUR BADBHAATI).ISKE BAAD DULHA SAARA SAMAAN(GOD KA) APNE MAA YA DADI KO DE DETA HAI.BOTH SIDES THEN DO TILAK OF THEIR JAWAAIS(SON IN LAWS).THEN THE LADIES DO MILNI.
LADIES MILNI:-THE LADIES FROM THE BOYS SIDE SIT ON THE STAGE AND TAKE MILNI FROM THE GIRLS MOTHER/DADI.
AFTER THIS THE GIRLS MOTHER MAKES HER TO BE SON IN LAW SIT ON HER LAP.IT IS A SYMBOL OF LOVE AND AFFECTION AFTER WHICH THE GIRLS SIDE DO VAAR PHER OF THEIR SON IN LAW.
